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An unintended pregnancy can happen to anyone, hearing the news can cut across your future plans, hopes and dreams and can bring up many emotions. As a partner, you might be feeling shocked, overwhelmed, or unsure about what to say or do. These feelings are natural, and it’s okay to need support in processing them.
Supporting your partner isn’t just about having all the answers. It’s about:
You might feel uncertain about your place in this situation, but your support and involvement matter deeply. Most people appreciate having someone to talk things through with, sharing both the challenges and the decisions ahead.
A common response is to say, “Whatever you choose, I’ll support you…” However, while this may appear a positive thing to say, it can often make a woman feel that the weight of the decision is on her shoulders alone.
You can best support your partner by talking honestly about the situation, about the options and about how you both feel. If your partner knows that you are really listening to her and sharing the responsibility for the decision then she will feel supported.
Whether you’d like to talk on your own or come in together, we offer:
It is important to ensure that you have all the information you need about the options – parenting, adoption and termination of pregnancy – before you make a decision. And we are here for you.
Our appointments are available in-person, telephone or online – Tuesday to Friday with appointment only. Contact us to see what time fits you. All our services are completely free and confidential. You can take all the time you need.
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The opportunity to speak to someone outside my circle of family and friends was invaluable. It helped me to see things from a new angle and better support my partner.